Tuesday, March 14, 2017

People over 40 are responsible for their faces.

Video I saw today, many photos of associates of the President. Who could look at them closely and not see gracelessness and guile and guilt? Who could not see broken hearts and the urge to salve them with revenge-- to dominate others to vindicate themselves?P

Saturday, November 5, 2016

I Am Struck by . . .

how supremely difficult it is, despite my best efforts, to really be any kind of marginal blessing to the people I love.

Thursday, September 1, 2016

Blended Families

There are fewer like the Brady Bunch than there are like the Donner Party.

Monday, May 30, 2016

Working to Be Honest, and also to Be Strong

I have been passive-aggressive in my past, and in this marriage I certainly getting my karma for having had been. She can get nothing for herself, and nearly everything that anybody else gets for her is criticized. Entitled to everything, responsible for nothing. The pain is so great, I want to die. I am open to my shortcomings and failures, so we talk about my shortcomings and failures. She is a great lump, and no one-- no thing is good enough for her.

Friday, April 29, 2016